Without Conscious Effort, Our Parenting Methods Can Create Conflict Instead of Connection in the family.
The authoritarian way most of us have been taught to parent, creates conflict and frustration, endless power struggles and leaves us with broken and in distant relationships with our children.
When we parent our children without working through our own history and triggers, we are destined to repeat painful patterns we ourselves experienced as children, no matter how badly we want it to be different.
No matter what your relationship with your child looks like right now, there is HOPE.
Depending on where things are at, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way.
But I promise you there is HOPE.
THINGS CAN CHANGE.
None of us start off as parents knowing what to do. We create plans, try to be the parent we want to be and watch as our idealistic dream get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our kids.
Not that long ago, I was in the midst of parenting a defiant, boundary pushing toddler. I had read all the books but felt like I was falling short. Why were the tools, tips and tactics not working?
Why was I so frusterated? Where was the support?
I wanted to parent with patience and peace, but instead I was losing my mind (and temper) and showing up completely different. What I came to realize, is that it wasn’t my fault that things weren’t working. And it’s not your fault either. It was because I had unresolved triggers from my past that were preventing me from moving foward. And the only way for my child’s behavior to change, was for me to start working through my unresolved triggers. This awareness catapulted me to make huge changes and a snowball effect began. And it happened FAST! My friends and family were seeing the difference and I couldn’t help but continue the work. That was seven years ago!
As you begin to clear unresolved experiences and learn new tools, you’ll start seeing dramatic changes in your family. You’ll experience more mutual respect, less tantrums, you’ll have more patience, peace, and ease. I’m here to help you activate this untapped resource so they can achieve the same results!
If you’re ready to learn more, schedule a time to talk.
Do you feel like you’re falling short as a parent?
we were never taught how to be the kind of parents most of us want to be.
And we end up slipping into the patterns that were ingrained in us throughout our childhood.
We subconsciouly and unknowingly repeat these patterns over and over again creating more disconnection, conflict, willpower battles and frusteration with our children. Until one day, we wake up and don’t know what happened. But we know something has to change!
If you’re reading this and are ready to break free from old patterns, then let’s talk!
I understand how hard it is to ask for help as a parent which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, non-judgemental openness and a support.
It’s time to stop blaming yourself.
Book a Call: When you book a complimentary call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together.
You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will share and offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind either way.